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Sibling Rivarly as Hatred

            What do you do when a sibling tells you they hate you and they really mean it?  No, not we had a fight and he/she hates you for a week and the two of you are back talking again.  I mean the kind since your birth type of hate.  Well, this is the topic today as many may have or be experiencing this and not know how to handle it.  Whether there is a 4 to 10 age difference between siblings or if its 2 to 6 siblings.  Hatred can be real and true between siblings.  One can love the other dearly, but be completely despised in response.             Gaslighting is a big way for the sibling who does hate the other to treat them, because it gives them more power and makes the sibling question their reality.  It's as if the hated sibling is on a string being pulled which ever way the other sibling wants them to go.  When the person is being gaslighted, he/she should guard w...